Thursday, October 20, 2016

USA presidential debate (final)

This may have been the debate Donald Trump wanted, but it
wasn't the one he needed.
With one last chance to make a pitch to the American public
that he should be trusted with the presidency, the Republican
nominee had to make efforts to expand his base of support.
He had to find a way to distance himself from the allegation
that he has a history of sexual harassment.
He had to position himself as the change candidate - just
days after a Fox poll showed that Hillary Clinton, whose party
has held the presidency for eight years, was beating him on
the question of who would "change the country for the
better".
Instead, after roughly half an hour of something resembling
an actual policy debate about the Supreme Court, gun rights,
abortion and even immigration, the old Donald Trump - the
one who constantly interrupted his opponent, sparred with
the moderator and lashed out at enemies real and perceived -
emerged.
He called Mrs Clinton a liar and a "nasty woman".
He said the women accusing him of sexual harassment
bordering on assault were either attention-seekers or Clinton
campaign stooges.
He said the media were "poisoning the minds" of the public.
And, most notably, he refused to say whether he would
accept the results of the election if he loses.
Mrs Clinton had her own moments where she was put on the
defensive - on her emails, on the Clinton Foundation and on
embarrassing details revealed in the Wikileaks hack.
The difference, however, is that Mrs Clinton largely kept her
poise and successfully changed the topic back to subjects
where she was more comfortable. It was, in fact, a master
class in parry-and-strike debate strategy.
The key takeaway from this debate, however - the headline
that Americans will wake up to read in the morning - will
certainly be Mr Trump's refusal to back way from his "rigged"
election claims.
That was what Mr Trump wanted to say, but it isn't
something the American people - or American democracy -
needed to hear.
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The Russian gambit
Mrs Clinton's skill at deflecting attacks and baiting Mr Trump
into unhelpful answers first was on display when moderator
Chris Wallace brought up a line from one of her Wall Street
speeches - revealed in the Wikileaks hack - that she endorsed
a hemispheric free-trade and open-immigration zone.
After saying she was only talking about an open energy
market - an assertion that seems somewhat questionable -
she tried to turn the question into a discussion of whether Mr
Trump would renounce the Russian government, which US
officials have said is behind the cyber-attack.
Mr Trump actually called Mrs Clinton out on her attempted
"great pivot" - but then he went on to get bogged down on
the Russian issue.
He said he'd never met Mr Putin (although he boasted during
a primary debate that he had talked with him in a television
green room), and said that Mrs Clinton was a liar and the real
Russian "puppet".
Oh, and this all came up when the debate topic was
supposed to be immigration.
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A bad experience
Mrs Clinton's next chance to pull a rhetorical switch-a-roo
came during the economic portion of the debate. After a
discussion of their tax proposals - and a predictable
exchange of allegations over who's cutting and who's raising
them too much - Mr Trump went after Mrs Clinton on her past
support of trade deals.
When she waffled a bit, he tried to tag her with a line he used
in an earlier debate with some success.
Why didn't Mrs Clinton enact her economic reforms over her
30 years in the public sphere? Mr Trump asked.
"You were very much involved in every aspect of this
country," he said. "And you do have experience. I say the one
thing you have over me is experience, but it's bad
experience, because what you've done has turned out badly."
The problem with reusing attack lines is that sometimes your
opponent prepares a defence - and Mrs Clinton had a
scathing response ready to fly.
She said that while she was defending children's rights in the
1970s, Mr Trump was defending himself against charges he
engaged in housing discrimination against African-
Americans.
When Mrs Clinton was speaking out for women's rights as
first lady in the 1990s, Mr Trump was taunting a beauty
contest winner about her weight. And when she was in the
White House situation room watching the raid on Osama bin
Laden's compound, Mr Trump was hosting a television reality
show.
"I'm happy to compare my 30 years of experience, what I've
done for this country, trying to help in every way I could,
especially kids and families get ahead and stay ahead, with
your 30 years," she said.
"I'll let the American people make that decision."
It was a scripted set-piece, yes, but it drew blood.
Women trouble
Quick on the heels of the exchange about experience came
the question Mr Trump had to expect - but didn't appear
ready for. What did he think of all the women who had come
forward since the last debate to allege that, when it came to
sexual harassment, Mr Trump's actions matched his candid
words in that recently revealed recording?
The Republican nominee's response was that the women
were either attention-seekers or Clinton campaign stooges
and that the allegations have been "largely debunked" -
which, when you think about it, isn't exactly a blanket denial.
In the last debate, Mrs Clinton appeared to hold back a bit in
her condemnation of Mr Trump on the topic.
This time - perhaps inspired by First Lady Michelle Obama's
well-received speech condemning Mr Trump last week - was
much sharper.
"Donald thinks belittling women makes him bigger," she said.
"He goes after their dignity, their self-worth, and I don't think
there is a woman anywhere who doesn't know what that feels
like. So we now know what Donald thinks and what he says
and how he acts toward women. That's who Donald is."
Mr Trump's response, that no one respects women more
than he does, was met by laughter in the debate hall and the
nearby media hall.
Mrs Clinton brushed off his efforts to turn the topic to her
private email server.
He may have lost this election even without the live-mic
revelation two weeks ago, but it's becoming increasingly
clear his campaign has been irreparably wounded by it.
Cracked foundation
During the presidential "fitness" portion of the debate,
Wallace had some pointed questions for Mrs Clinton, as well.
He asked her to defend the Clinton Foundation against
allegations it was a pay-to-play organisation that granted
insider access to the state department in exchange for big-
money donations.
Mrs Clinton responded by defending the foundation's actions
- noting its high ratings from non-profit watchdogs and its
global health efforts.
Mr Trump called it a "criminal enterprise" - but then Mrs
Clinton was able to push the conversation to Mr Trump's
foundation, which has had its own share of controversies.
She noted that Mr Trump had used foundation money to
purchase a six-foot portrait of himself. "Who does that?" she
asked.
Mr Trump tried to defend himself, but Wallace wouldn't let
him off the hook, asking him why he used charitable money
to settle a fine levied on his Florida resort.
The Republican's response was only that the money had
gone to charity.
An exchange on the Clinton Foundation could have been -
perhaps should have been - a winning moment for Mr Trump.
Instead, it was another opportunity for Mrs Clinton to knock
him off his stride.
Tangled rigging
Mr Trump was already largely sunk at this point in the debate.
Mrs Clinton had managed to dodge his most dangerous
attacks and goaded him into the kind of badgering behaviour
that had garnered him negative reviews after the first debate.
He needed a clear victory and, at the absolute best, he had
fought Mrs Clinton to a draw.
Then he was asked whether, despite his talk of rigged voting
at his rallies this week, he'd follow his running mate's lead
and pledge to accept the results of the election.
"I will look at it at the time," he said. "I'm not looking at
anything now."
It was a comment that will launch a thousand headlines and
dominate discussion in the days ahead.
It was also just the start of a full-spectrum tirade by Mr
Trump against a media that "poisoned the minds of voters"
and Mrs Clinton, who he said should have been prohibited
from even running for the presidency.
Mrs Clinton's response was that the Republican's remarks
were "horrifying".
She then deftly expanded her response to paint Mr Trump as
a man who cries "rigged" whenever he faces a situation he
doesn't like - whether it's the FBI decision not to prosecute
her for her email server, his loss in the Iowa caucuses earlier
this year, the lawsuit against his eponymous for-profit
university or even his reality TV show's defeat at the Emmy
Awards. ("Should have gotten it," Mr Trump piped in.)
"He's talking down our democracy," she concluded. "And I,
for one, am appalled that somebody who is the nominee of
one of our two major parties would take that kind of
position."
Talking to Republican officeholders in the media spin room
after the debate, their discomfort with Mr Trump's statement
was palpable.
Some explained it away as a tongue-in-cheek joke. Others
said it was simply Mr Trump not wanting to consider defeat
before Election Day.
The reality, however, is Republican politicians owe their
positions - past, current and future - to the people's vote, and
they rely on the legitimacy granted by opponents who
concede when defeated.
Mr Trump has called American democracy into question - and
when he shakes that particular tree, it's impossible to
determine who might get crushed by falling branches.

Wednesday, October 28, 2015

6 Small Things You Can Do To Make A Big Difference In Your Relationship

Successful relationships don’t just come together haphazardly. They take effort from both people involved to continue building upon the foundation on which the relationship began. Too often, life gets in the way, and many of the little things fall through the cracks. Because of this, it’s important to remember that a relationship should be one of the most meaningful aspects of a person’s life, and it’s worth every ounce of energy you put into it. Here are a few small things that can make a big difference in your relationship.
1. Give long embraces Emo band Saves the Day once said “nothing’s like being held sometimes.” While I’d advise you to take caution when taking advice from an emo band, you should definitely hold onto this one. After a long day’s work, there really isn’t much better than spending a few minutes wrapped in each other’s arms. It allows you to forget the outside world, if only for a few moments, and remember why you both work so hard in the first place. 2. Leave little reminders around for them to find I don’t think there’s much else that makes me smile more than seeing a little note from my wife attached to my windshield when getting in my car in the morning. The little things that let your significant other know that you’re thinking of them can completely turn their day around. Even texting a picture of something that reminded you of them is enough. Everyone loves to feel important; show the person you love the most just how important they are every chance you get.
3. Show gratitude for everything they do for you You undoubtedly appreciate your significant other very much. But do you show it all the time? Don’t just show your thankfulness around birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays. Make it a point to thank them every day for even the tiniest of favors. Whenever they do something for you, they’re allowing you to relax just a little longer. Thank them for it. It shows you don’t take them for granted, and you acknowledge just how much they mean to you. 4. Make their life easier whenever you can On the flip side of the last point, you should do everything you can to make their life easier. Even if that means stopping at the store at the end of a long day or running back out if they forgot to grab something. Clean the house or have dinner ready on the table when they get home. Keep in mind everything they’ve given you, tangible and intangible, as a reminder for when you don’t “feel like” doing something, and do it anyway, knowing it will ease their troubles a little more. 5. Take a break from busyness for them We all lead busy lives. But you should never be so busy that you don’t have time to spend with your significant other. Otherwise, what’s the point of working so hard? I’m not saying you should completely blow off your responsibilities to spend time with your significant other, but definitely recognize when you’ve spent way too much time on work-related obligations and hit the pause button. Sometimes, you just need to put everything else on the back burner and enjoy some quality time with your love.
6.
Tell them why you love them You probably tell one another you love each other all the time. Obviously, there’s nothing wrong with that. But take it a step further: tell them whyyou love them. Make them understand exactly what it is that keeps you tied to them. Put some thought into it, too. You’ll likely end up finding even more reasons to love them than you had realized in the first place.

6 Small Things You Can Do To Make A Big Difference In Your Relationship

Successful relationships don’t just come together haphazardly. They take effort from both people involved to continue building upon the foundation on which the relationship began. Too often, life gets in the way, and many of the little things fall through the cracks. Because of this, it’s important to remember that a relationship should be one of the most meaningful aspects of a person’s life, and it’s worth every ounce of energy you put into it. Here are a few small things that can make a big difference in your relationship. 1. Give long embraces Emo band Saves the Day once said “nothing’s like being held sometimes.” While I’d advise you to take caution when taking advice from an emo band, you should definitely hold onto this one. After a long day’s work, there really isn’t much better than spending a few minutes wrapped in each other’s arms. It allows you to forget the outside world, if only for a few moments, and remember why you both work so hard in the first place. 2. Leave little reminders around for them to find I don’t think there’s much else that makes me smile more than seeing a little note from my wife attached to my windshield when getting in my car in the morning. The little things that let your significant other know that you’re thinking of them can completely turn their day around. Even texting a picture of something that reminded you of them is enough. Everyone loves to feel important; show the person you love the most just how important they are every chance you get. 3. Show gratitude for everything they do for you You undoubtedly appreciate your significant other very much. But do you show it all the time? Don’t just show your thankfulness around birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays. Make it a point to thank them every day for even the tiniest of favors. Whenever they do something for you, they’re allowing you to relax just a little longer. Thank them for it. It shows you don’t take them for granted, and you acknowledge just how much they mean to you. 4. Make their life easier whenever you can On the flip side of the last point, you should do everything you can to make their life easier. Even if that means stopping at the store at the end of a long day or running back out if they forgot to grab something. Clean the house or have dinner ready on the table when they get home. Keep in mind everything they’ve given you, tangible and intangible, as a reminder for when you don’t “feel like” doing something, and do it anyway, knowing it will ease their troubles a little more. 5. Take a break from busyness for them We all lead busy lives. But you should never be so busy that you don’t have time to spend with your significant other. Otherwise, what’s the point of working so hard? I’m not saying you should completely blow off your responsibilities to spend time with your significant other, but definitely recognize when you’ve spent way too much time on work-related obligations and hit the pause button. Sometimes, you just need to put everything else on the back burner and enjoy some quality time with your love. 6. Tell them why you love them You probably tell one another you love each other all the time. Obviously, there’s nothing wrong with that. But take it a step further: tell them whyyou love them. Make them understand exactly what it is that keeps you tied to them. Put some thought into it, too. You’ll likely end up finding even more reasons to love them than you had realized in the first place.

6 Qualities All Highly Successful People Have In Common

Motivational Quotes for Students 6 Qualities All Highly Successful People Have In Common 14 hours agoby AdminAdd Comment172 Views 1   1     2   0   SEE ALL AVAILABLE SCHOLARSHIPS HERE, CLICK ON EACH TO SEE DETAILS PTDF Scholarship, MTN Foundation Scholarship, Agbami Scholarship AGIP (NAOC) Scholarship Total E&P Scholarship MUSTE scholarship, SKUSAT Scholarship, NNPC/ADDAX Scholarship, CHEVRON Scholarship, NIIT Scholarship, Federal Government Scholarship, NLNG Scholarship, Shell (SPDC) Scholarship, ABC Transport Scholarship, NWAG Scholarship, Gani Fawehinmi Scholarship, Sir Emeka Offor Scholarship, ETC PROMO: DOWNLOAD FREE Scholarship Past Questions @NUS 3 Years Anniversary See List of Scholarships For Undergraduate and Postgraduate Students In 2015 & 2016 Here SEE ADMISSION LIST OF ALL NIGERIAN TERTIARY INSTITUTIONS THAT HAVE BEEN RELEASED HERE GET SMS ALERT ON YOUR PHONE FOR NEW SCHOLARSHIPS, Text SCHOLARSHIP to 35818 6 Qualities All Highly Successful People Have In Common There are those successful people out there who have it made. They catch break after break and seem to just have all the four leaf clovers of the world in their pockets. But we know that it’s more than just luck on their side. We’ve found six consistent traits of phenomenally successful people and know that if you strive to match yourself to these that you too can become successful. 1. They Are Passionate This might be a no-brainer trait but it might also be the foundation to a successful individual. Those who succeed love deeply what they do. Take a look at almost any athlete out there, they are passionate about what they do and almost always do it for the love of the gam. People like Tiger Woods knew at a young age what they loved and then made a life out of it. If you don’t know if you’re truly passionate about something just ask yourself if you would do it for free. If you would, then you’ve found your passion. 2. They Are Resilient To be resilient is to face challenges, learn from them, and push through to success. Some of the most successful people in the world have faced the uncanniest struggles and have managed to come out on top. J.K. Rowling was rejected by 12 different publishers before selling the first Harry Potter novel. Successful people recognize each failure in life as a chance to learn something and to grow from it. 3. They Push Themselves Out of Their Comfort Zones Phenomenally successful people know that they can’t just sit on their hands and hope that the ideas in their heads will some day become a real thing. They have to get up out of their house and begin to get their ideas out there. It’s a matter of getting out of your comfort zone, setting challenges, deadlines, and goals all to push yourself to continue to strive harder, work better, and succeed. 4. They Continually Create Entrepreneurs like Time Ferris and Evan Williams are successful because they are continually creating. Rather than finish a project and end their careers there, successful people continue to study and create and form new ideas. Evan Williams didn’t just finish when he founded one company. If he had, we wouldn’t have Twitter, Blogger, or Medium. The daily routines of CEOs will show you how dedicated entrepreneurs and successful people are and how even CEOs continue to create and work hard to succeed until the end. 5. They Are Focused A huge trait for successful people is focus. Not just that they can sit in a room and get the work done, but that they have a specific goal in mind. Successful people can narrow down and focus on the one thing that they know is important. Just look at someone like Walt Disney. His focus was on quality and innovation. For him it wasn’t about making money, it was about lifting the hearts of children and not with chintzy products. Disney even said that “quality will out.” He focused on quality and what did that result in? A phenomenal empire that spans the globe with him being a household name throughout the world. 6. They Continue to Learn and Better Themselves Current president of Pixar Animation Studios and Walt Disney Animation Studios, Ed Catmull wrote in his book Creativity, Inc. that the best thing to do “when faced with a challenge [is to] get smarter.” Successful people don’t assume that they know everything or that they are the smartest people out there. They continue to learn and better themselves and their craft. Some of the most successful people pick up new hobbies consistently throughout their lives and careers to keep their brains active and to help with creativity.

Sunday, October 25, 2015

5 Motivational Tips for Students

5 Motivational Tips for Students Students who are thrilled to do their homework every single day are rare… if there are any. Everyone needs a motivational push now and then, and you will be surprised what inspiration can do with your opinion about “pointless” homework assignments. Even if you don’t see the point in doing homework, you still see a point in getting good grades, so read these tips and learn how to become a more motivated student. 1. Change your perspective You cannot form a foundation for your future knowledge and skills without doing homework, no matter how pointless it seems. Even topics that don’t awaken a single spark of interest are important for your general knowledge and development as a person. If you don’t like algebra, you may understand its importance when you realize that it’s the foundation for economics, business, science, and many other fields of study. When it comes to English homework, you need to understand that paper writing is an essential skill to gain if you want to be a successful student at college and university. 2. Become an “expert” in one area There isn’t a student who absolutely loves all subjects. All you need to do is focus a bit more on the area you love and get some serious attitude about it. Maybe you can start a blog associated to the area you love and become a self-appointed expert in it. Research deeper, become more involved and enjoy your devotion to the things that interest you. However, this shouldn’t drive you away from all other homework you get; in fact, it should help you become more tolerant of the topics that don’t interest you that much. Think of the less favored topics as “supporting bricks” for your career path. 3. Don’t be afraid of competition You don’t have to tame your competitive spirit. In fact, it can help you be a more diligent student and have fun while doing homework and making better achievements than anyone else in class. Being competitive doesn’t mean that you have to become the classmate no one likes. You can team up with one or two friends and inspire each other to do better in all subjects. Healthy competition can be a very inspiring motivation, if you know how to approach it. 4. A prize can be motivating If a big science project is giving you trouble and you can’t even get motivated enough to start it, you should make a plan and divide the entire process into few smaller steps. Take each step and turn it into a goal, having the big picture in front of you at all times. Make sure to set deadlines for each step and reward yourself with small treats or breaks after every achievement. When you focus on the prize, you will be motivated to do everything right. 5. Get support to get motivated If you are not getting enough encouragement from your family or friends, that shouldn’t discourage you because it doesn’t mean that no one cares. Your teacher, for example, surely cares whether or not you do your homework and study well. Teachers are always there to support their students, because their success as educators depends on the achievements of the class. If you feel like you don’t get enough support in your home or from your friends, you can join an education forum and find the motivation you need. Many people will cheer for you if you are brave enough to cheer for yourself. Conclusion: Motivation is crucial for your academic success This is common for all students: they don’t see how the knowledge they gain in the classroom is implementable in the real world, so they see homework as a pointless task with a single aim to cause them stress, consume their free time and exercise their brain cells. If that’s your attitude towards homework, it is completely wrong! All you need is a different perspective on your studies and you will understand how important they are. When you learn how to motivate yourself, the homework will immediately become important and meaningful in your eyes.

Friday, October 23, 2015

8 Ways to Make Yourself Profoundly Influential

Influence is one of the most powerful tools that you can use to impact your personal and professional life. Unfortunately, we are not born with the natural tendency to be influential. It’s a craft that is nurtured until mastered. Sadly, the mastery of influence is shrouded in limiting beliefs, and battled by resistance that others will impose. I know this battle well. The struggle to affect your personal life as well as your professional life is difficult. There is no right path to take; you must simply take the path. But, more importantly, you must do the work. To drastically increase your influence, do the following: 1. Ask a Beautiful Question As an influencer, it’s our fiduciary duty to listen. But before we begin listening, we must approach each encounter as a student and ask what Warren Berger, author of A More Beautiful Question, calls “the beautiful question”. A question of this caliber opens the mind to richer discourse. It forces others to pause and allow the question to marinate and percolate. As the question simmers, each degree of adjustment brings about a cadre of hunches, impressions, and fragile new ideas. As an influencer, here are a few beautiful questions to ask: What does not fit? What would an outsider do? Do I understand why we do it this way? What might be the long-term consequences? 2. Create a plan to be a good listener As an influencer, you must spend the better part of your energy listening. This might sound counter-intuitive, but the most effective strategy to get people’s attention is for you to give them your attention. “Listen. It makes you smarter.” — Richard Branson When you are genuinely listening to someone, when you are giving them your undivided attention, when you can summarize their conversation, when you can ask a beautiful question — you are demonstrating open-mindedness and respect. 3. Welcome disagreements As influencers, we expect a healthy chorus of disagreement. I would even say that as an influencer it’s your responsibility to create an environment of disagreement. Why, it’s a healthy sign of critical thinking. Where ideas are being challenged, not for malicious intent, but in an effort to test the ideas’ viability. 4. Focus only on what really matters As an influencer, your energy is limited. Therefore, it’s imperative that you focus that finite energy on projects where you can make the greatest contribution. There are a number of strategies you can adopt, but here are five that work for me: Develop a clear “why” — this keeps you anchored to what really matters Do it — because you are the only one who can Delegate — often you will not be the best one to do the work Defer — sometimes things are not actionable now Weekly review — because you need to check where you are spending your energy 5. Build a plan for being proactive As an influencer, you do not wait for a situation to find you. You must build a funnel to remain proactive: Ask questions Listen Encourage disagreements Focus on what matters Proactive people focus their efforts in the Circle of Influence. They work on the things they can do something about. The nature of their energy is positive, enlarging and magnifying, causing their Circle of Influence to increase. — Steven Covey 6. Set a powerful vision As an influencer, vision is critically important. You must develop a vision statement that is compelling. If your vision statement does not excite you, how will you ever influence others? You must give yourself permission to envision the perfect future, by answering these two questions: What do I want to see happen? What would “it” look like in three years? Once you are clear on your vision and the things you want, the how generally takes care of itself. 7. Use your influence to bring out the best in others As an influencer, your responsibility is not to be the smartest person in the room. Your only responsibility is to foster a culture of intelligence — to multiply the intelligence among your team members. Early in a task, team members should discuss the knowledge each brings to the table. That changes the criterion for power from social influence to informational influence. – Bryan L. Bonner and Alexander R. Bolinger 8. Increase your value through education As an influencer, you must increase your value by thinking of yourself as a product, and upgrade yourself every year. You must see yourself as a competitive product with benefits, and liabilities, all waiting to be improved. A good strategy for upgrading yourself is to ask, “What skills will give me more freedom in the future?” Once you have identified these, dedicate time to mastering them. And by mastery, I mean knowing the skill so well that you are positioned to help someone else solve their problems. Final thoughts So there you have it. My suggested list of characteristics that will make an amazing influencer. Which one are you going to start with first? My personal favorite is number eight. My hopes are that you choose to become an influencer, because your professional and personal life will thank you for the dedication.